Why Koreans Always Ask Your Age (And Why It's Crucial)

The First Question I Get Asked in Korea

At every new meeting in Korea, within 5 minutes: "몇 살이에요?" (How old are you?). It's not nosiness — it's the most logical and necessary question in a language system based on hierarchy.

Why Age Matters So Much

Age determines:

1. Politeness level you use
2. Vocabulary: 형/누나/오빠/언니 vs first name
3. Behavior: who pours drinks, who eats first

Without knowing age, a Korean literally doesn't know how to speak to you.

How to Answer

• [년]년생이에요 — I was born in [year] (most common)
• 저는 [age]살이에요 — I'm [age] years old

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