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Condolences in Korean: What to Say (and Avoid)

삼가 고인의 명복을 빕니다 is the formal phrase. In messages: 상심이 크시겠어요.

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Published on September 14, 2026

Condolences in Korean: What to Say (and Avoid)

Formal condolences = 삼가 고인의 명복을 빕니다. Simpler message: 많이 힘드시죠. 위로의 말씀 전합니다.

Korean mourning has strict codes (상복, period, 조의금). A short respectful line beats a long speech.

Politeness levels

PhraseRomanizationMeaningRegister
삼가 고인의 명복을 빕니다samga goinui myeongbogeul bimnidaMay the deceased rest in peaceFormal
상심이 크시겠어요sangsimi keusigesseoyoYou must be grieving deeplySoft
무슨 말씀을 드려야 할지…museun malseumeul deuryeoya haljiI don't know what to say…Honest
힘든 시간 잘 견디시길 바랍니다himdeun sigan jal gyeondisigil baramnidaWishing you strengthSupport
  • 조의금 (joeuigeum): Condolence money
  • 장례식 (jangnyesik): Funeral
  • 명복을 빕니다 (myeongbogeul bimnida): Rest in peace

Field tip

If you're not close, a short message plus quiet presence beats awkward speeches.

Common mistake

Avoid emojis and light slang (헐, 대박) here.

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